I am really worried about Pregnant and telling Dad?!?!?!

Im pregnant and i need to tell my dad but......

Im 15 years old and not long ago I find out i was pregnant and i told my boyfriend right away and he has dropped all hes friends out of his life and is looking for a job but theres a thing he is 19 years old. Im living in South carolina with my dad after moving out with my mom from England. My dad has always told me if he caught me havin sex with that boy he would press charges on him and im scared he will go to jail! can my dad for that?? how do i tell my dad with out him flipping out?? whats gunna happen next?? can i move out after the baby is born?? SOMEOME PLEASEEE HELP ME!?!?


Written by: sumter48 on 7/26/2010 | This worry has been read 170 times.

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    1. Advice provided by a male adviser #1 46 days ago, axels0cats0and0axel advised:

      check your local laws, it might be called 'statutory rape'

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    2. Advice provided by a female adviser #2 46 days ago, sumter48 responded:

      Yea that was what i was thinking but like im the age to have sex but becaus he is over 18 would he go to jail for havin sex with a minor??

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    3. Advice provided by a male adviser #3 46 days ago, axels0cats0and0axel advised:

      you would need to ask someone local, as i think all the laws are different in all the different states

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    4. Advice provided by a female adviser #4 46 days ago, sumter48 responded:

      I guess ima have to try to do that but its hard trustin some people in a small town

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    5. Advice provided by a female adviser #5 43 days ago, eerie222 advised:

      you are thinking about giving birth to this baby???????well i don't think its safe, you are just 15 m not saying its impossible but there are going to be complications for sure..............and after the baby is born the matter is going to be even worse!!!!u sure you wanna do this????? please really give a thought about this before you decide anything

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    6. Advice provided by a female adviser #6 42 days ago, sumter48 responded:

      I dont believe in killin the baby and not sure if i could give it away. I was willin to lay down with this boy and now this happen and i cant change it but only deal with it and try to make the best of it even though im real scared and have no clue how far along i am.. but what kind of complications?? could havin this baby kill me?? im scared because how am i gunna take care of it??

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    7. Advice provided by a female adviser #7 38 days ago, eerie222 advised:

      considering your age you definetly have life threatning danger.........your internal organs are not well developed so there is a huge chance of miscarrage, you will have long term back problem i.e spinal cord problem. i can't point out all the effects here!!!!!google it and trust me there are many. abortion should never be the option and it is rong and hard but you are just 15 so you should seriously consider abortion bcoz your life is also in danger and make the decision fast bcoz it will b mre hard with a mature baby and you might not even have abortion as an option.....................well best of luck and make your decision soon

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